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There have been series of talks and advises about premarital sex; whether to do it or abstain from it. The issue of sex in a relationship is avery delicate one.There are series of misconceptions about when sex should be introduced in a relationship and if at all it should be a major key in that relationship.<br />
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It is pointless saying this but we would say it nevertheless; sex is binding and whether you like it or not, there are some spiritual implications attached to it.No one is here to preach, we would rather be weighing the advantages, ills and perhaps consequences that may arise from the abuse of sex in a relationship. At the end of this piece, it would be totally up to you to decidewhether you want to do it or whether you would take a chill break. Either way, you would be the architect of your own fortune.<br />
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Young ladies who are virgins are always under pressure and do not know if they should give in to the advances of the men they are in relationship with as most men challenge their love for them in the absence of sex.Find below some of the things that could happen to your relationship as soon as you start having sex:<br />
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1<b>. You could become closer</b><br />
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When couples who are in a relationship start to have sex, they become closer. They feel like they have seen all there is to see in each other and become more free.A part of you is given to your partner as soon as allow a man reach the deepest part of you; in the same light, a part of him is taken by you. It could be likened to the communing of spirits where both of your bodies have been merged as one in that moment of heat and sexual tension.<br />
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<b>2. It could pull you apart</b><br />
Another thing that could happen to you after having sex with your partner is gradual withdrawal. Now, no one is talking about the contraceptive method implored; whatmost people fail to consider is the fact that their partners may become irritated by them and lose interest in the affair.Many people are seemingly inspired by the freshness and innocence of a relationship that they lose the connection as soon as sex is involved. The adventure and chasing is what many people enjoy when theyare in a relationship.<br />
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<b>You Could Become A Wanton </b></div>
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With sex, it is very difficult to stop once you start. As a woman, once that thin hymen is broken in a wave of passion, it takes serious grace for you to hold on and not do it. This means you become Oliver Twist and you do not want to stop until you get more.What is the indication that you wouldmarry your present partner? Is there any proof you would not sleep with someone else other than him since you are not married?4. It becomes a point of </div>
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      In relationships, people break up and then move on. After talking to some people who have had bad relationships which led to them breaking up, it was discovered that sex becomes a point of pain after a while.To a man, it could be some sort of glory. But for many women, it is not aglory they prefer to bask in. They hate to remember how their bodies were touched with their inner treasure plundered by men who they now consider undeserving. Which would be your tale?<br />
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<b>5. A different phase of love</b><br />
  Many couples take their relationships to the next level through consummation. Having sex with your partner creates some sort of connection between couples. Sex is a form of promoting love to most couples and they do this to make their relationships get better. Some people have no regret doing this even when they break up but many get married to their partners even after the deed has been done.<br />
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<b>A Consciousness of sin</b></div>
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The very religious ones know that sex is a sin as the wedding bed should remain undefiled. Marriage is honorable and intending couples are expected to walk into holy matrimonywith pure souls and bodies.Many people are left with a sense of guilt when they have sex or attempt consummation after the clause of marriage. Words like adultery and fornication come into play then with many dying inside.</div>
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7<b>. The risk of altering your destiny</b></div>
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Having sex in a relationship would nodoubt spice up the affair especially if there are material gains and trips attached to it. However, you may be at risk of ending up with the wrong partner or ruining your chance of the happily-ever-after dream.Unwanted pregnancy could lead you to marriage faster than you planned and for those who attempt abortion, the guilt may take forever to fade. Even if you play safe, have you also considered the risk of contracting viral diseases?</div>
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7 Things You Should Know About Premarital Sex

There have been series of talks and advises about premarital sex; whether to do it or abstain from it. The issue of sex in a relationship is...

Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering<br />
who the focus of this post<br />
should be – girls or<br />
guys or both. In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and wives. You find a lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools. It’s<br />
so bad that, often times,they are duly<br />
recognised and acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even<br />
leaders of various students associations.<br />
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Little wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of the year award” shamelessly and<br />
thoughtlessly received by<br />
students..Like I said<br />
earlier, I really don’t know the particular<br />
gender to address but let me just keep typing.<br />
The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in their various off campus hostels is painfully alarming.<br />
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Most times, these young girls are very beautiful, with bright and promising future.They cohabit with boys<br />
who are their fellow students as roommates.<br />
The lugubrious<br />
part of it is that the silly girl would always<br />
introduce the small boy as her fiancé..Our<br />
society is really sick courtesy of those that live<br />
in it. These girls collect either hostel fees or<br />
house rents from unsuspecting (and<br />
sometimes, struggling)parents<br />
and end up in the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several years to gain admission. Then you suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation.<br />
You fasted. You had one prayer point filled<br />
with promises of your loyalty and devotion to<br />
God if only He would answer your prayer. Now<br />
that He has fulfilled His part by answering and<br />
granting you admission, don’t you think He is<br />
expecting you to fulfill your own part, to keep<br />
whatever promises you made to Him??.<br />
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Many of you just got admission and once you<br />
settle down (especially from your second year)<br />
, crazy thoughts will begin to creep into your<br />
minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would<br />
have been over; If God didn’t capture you<br />
(possibly through the various campus<br />
fellowships), boys would have caught you. In<br />
my school we even have an unrecognized,<br />
unregistered but well offered course (Moz101.<br />
moz, being the short form 4 Mozambique hall,<br />
were fresh female students are accommodated).<br />
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For the guys its a course that shouldn't be<br />
carried over. Soon, they would persuade you<br />
to move in with them. Of course, they’d give<br />
you one thousand reasons to make you<br />
give in to their<br />
prodding.. Before you agree to move in and live<br />
with a boy on campus, consider the reason<br />
why you are in school in the first place. What<br />
image would you be creating about yourself?<br />
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as is always the<br />
case, or will you resort to series of abortions<br />
like many other girls before you? What advice will you give your<br />
children in future concerning this kind of<br />
things? After school, what next? Will the relationship really<br />
lead you anywhere?.<br />
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This post is finally addressing the<br />
female folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s<br />
because they are the worst hit by the grave<br />
consequences of illicit sexual relationships.<br />
They are the ones that turn out to be the sore<br />
losers in the end. They call it school life but<br />
they don’t realize how idiotic they have been<br />
till it’s too late. You are not in school to get<br />
married. Part of the reasons why you are in<br />
school IS NOT to get the<br />
husband-and-wife<br />
experience, to see what it feels like for the boy to provide the money for food and for the girl<br />
to go to the market for food stuffs and cook.<br />
That’s pure misplacement of purpose! One guy told me that he was practically learning how tobe a caring and<br />
romantic husband. Such shameless! Then you hear the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are<br />
just roommates”. Yet she<br />
commits countless<br />
abortions before graduation..Yes, your<br />
admission has given you<br />
unlimited freedom.<br />
Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to do or what not to do.<br />
There is even no blood relation around, so there's<br />
no fear of someone reporting you. But<br />
what about giving<br />
your womanhood respect and protecting your<br />
dignity?<br />
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What about living in such a way as to have a<br />
positive story to tell the next generation<br />
(including your children) without your<br />
conscience pricking you?<br />
What Goes Around Will Definately Come Around....<br />
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....<br />
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<b><span style="color: #a64d79;">Thanks</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #a64d79;">By</span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #a64d79;">Mikky Chuka/Arthur Flex </span></b><br />
<b><span style="color: #a64d79;">CoouGistNG Team. </span></b>

Married In School, Single At Home

Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering who the focus of this post should be – girls or guys or both. In almost every tertiary ins...